How To Check On A Man Who Is Not Okay
Somebody reading this is worried about a man. A husband, a brother, a father, or the friend you have known since you were fifteen who has stopped answering the group chat. You have noticed something is off. He is drinking more, or sleeping less, or he laughs at the right moments but there is nothing […]
Book Me To Talk To Your Men. Here Is What Actually Happens.
I ran 2,300 miles from Los Angeles to Jacksonville in 56 days. When people hear that, they want to talk about the miles. How many shoes. What I ate. Whether my knees are done. I understand it. The number is the part that makes somebody stop scrolling. The miles were not the point. The miles […]
Why Men Talk When They Walk Side By Side
Sit a man down across a table and ask him how he is really doing. Watch where his eyes go. The salt shaker. The window. The phone he does not need to check. He says he is fine. Then he asks you about your truck. Put that same man on a road beside you, both […]
What 2,300 Miles Taught Me About Men Asking For Help
Men do not usually say the thing out loud. We say it sideways. We say it as a joke. We say it as a complaint about work. Or we do not say it at all, we go quiet for a few months, and we call that being busy. I ran 2,300 miles from Los Angeles […]